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SplitPersonality
658 posts |
#297042 2008-05-18 22:20 GMT |
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I had a best friend who was a Gemini (but she constantly felt like she needed to compete with me?) it wasn't always easy to communicate with her, when I won my award (she told me that I didn't deserved it), she did betrayed me (talked behind my back) when I would never do such thing! but I forgave her (I'm a pretty forgiving person),...now I tried my best to keep in touch with her (but she'll *pop up* when she want to see me just to hang out)...I can't keep up with her! lol
Through my experience with Gemini girlfriends; I found each time in a convo they would exaggerate their stories (like they would say: "I'm going to become a dentist" next thing I know 2 yrs later, she hasn't finished hs...) they jump over all, I can't always trust them (with their stories)...my personal experience! maybe Gemini friends aren't compatible with Cancerian friends? I think that could be it lol (btw I'm a Cancerian female) |
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StoneHenge
662 posts |
#297043 2008-05-18 22:37 GMT |
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Gemini means two. That's means theres 2 sides to a gemini. Not always the case though. But I'm sure in yours.
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BlindPoet
642 posts |
#297044 2008-05-18 22:38 GMT |
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I can agree with you on that part about your friend saying she wants to become a dentist and then doesn't finish high school.
I don't really know what ticks in the mind of a female Gemini But I can tell you she probably just wanted to share her ambitions with you, even though life did not meet her plans. Rather than to talk about going to the club and dance all night, probably she just wanted to let you know she wants to be successful too. Geminis will always be on the go, so don't expect to always know what shes up to or be on the same track with her. |
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LetsRemeber
622 posts |
#297045 2008-05-18 22:40 GMT |
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One of my closest friends is a Gemini and she never exaggerates a story she never competes with me...she is a living doll. I have two Gemini ladies at work...one of them is my kindred spirit...I love her to absolute pieces, she is honest and sweet and she can finish my sentences---we have a bond for sure. Then there is another lady and she is super catty, she can't be trusted at all...she will smile in your face and stab you in the back as soon as you turn around- she is a miserable person. I only speak to her when I have to.
Think it just depends on the person---but I don't think categorically it is a Gemini female thing. I'm a Sadge. |
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SpotsNDots
643 posts |
#297046 2008-05-18 23:13 GMT |
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OK, Im a gemini and yes it could sound like we exaggerate our stories BUT in reality we just have big ideals and we tend to become inconsistant in getting to these big ideals or goals. I do not backstab my friends, I do tend to gossip but only to the a**es who pull out the daggers first. so like the saggie above me, I agree with her..luv ya saggs!! ( : always sticken up for us geminis and vice versa!
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RainDrop
653 posts |
#297047 2008-05-18 23:56 GMT |
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i don't know if she's being a bitch because she was born as a gemini.. my bestfriend is a gemini. i grew up with her and she's been like an older sister to me. she looks after me and always making sure i'm not harming myself.. i'm quite self destructive..
she never exaggerates her stories.. she tells things as it is. she tells me all her secrets and fully trusts me. she's just inspirational to me. and i have another friend who is a gemini.. and we only recently got closer.. she's always helping me when i'm in trouble and always gives me good advice. she makes sure i show up in classes and do my work.she's helping me passes my exams.. she's great.. and she doesn't exaggerate either. so i don't know... my gemini girlfriends have been great to me and i tend to have really long lasting friendships with them. i'm a pisces btw. |
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JunkFoodAddict
668 posts |
#297048 2008-05-19 00:22 GMT |
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They're insecure. You should be flattered, but keep her at a distance. I'd hate for her to jeopardize you because of her green-eyed envy.
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Cat
626 posts |
#297049 2008-05-20 01:05 GMT |
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Gemini's do have huge goals (and we mean it !), due to our G-d given intelligence... However It is more difficult for us to follow through because we have so much going on. Both within our general 'make up' and for some of us it's extenuating circumstances.... So it may take us longer, but I think that eventually we get there... I've seen this with some Gems.
Your friend can accomplish whatever she sets her mind to, if and only if she isn't ridiculed, judged, pressured (in the wrong way, this takes smarts!) and receives lots of support and encouragement! Most of us aren't jealous people at all (isn't within our nature), we wouldn't want to be anyone but our unique selves! In addition, I can speak for myself when I say that I am plenty trustworthy. As far as the Gossip, I don't know, that totally isn't me... I don't betray friends or even ex's (secrets). |
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