he he ..oh well in that case
i will let them know..very straight up
and frank..i will tell them..i CANNOT
be with someone i have no feelings for.
just not me..i have to be head over converse
for that person lmao..

In my case, i give signs as my feelings goes away then by the time i really lost the feeling, that is the time i will tell him straight what i feel. As they say -there's no easy way to break somebody's heart. But we need to be honest with our feelings, and by doing so, it means we respect other peoples feelings too by not fooling them as if everything is okay... My motto when it comes to relationship is Honesty is the best policy. Take it or leave it.

If I lose that loving feeling, I will ask The Rightous Brothers if their is an answer to their song :-)

Simply put, I know they won't give me the answer so, I will tell them straight up that i have a contagious disease and have to be far away for the next 10 years ....It might work

Libra

If I lose that feeling, I will tell him that its over and I can't find any feelings for him.
Straight up and then, I will give him the mp3 of the song .

Edit....That's a good one Left-t

wow thats a hard call!
i usually do the friendly distant thing (polite yet distant)
and then they get the hint that somethings going on.

u also get a sense that u want change in ur life hey?

but yeh i dont realy trust my decions so i dont dump them, i just arn't as attentive as i would be with someone i still loved.
u will find it gets harder and harder tho if u leave it.
when i am friendly, distant and dont show i care they got the hint and dumped me

i didn't mind tho because i wanted it i was just too coward to do it myself, and now i am happy! (happen just recently)
i admired my boyfriend for having the courage to break up with me because i didnt "call him anymore" ha ha

but i think you should do it. we live in a 'disposable society' where if something/someone doesnt worjk for us we simply get a new one!

i think u need to be honest, altho it will hurt them - u will be being true to yourself, and how i dealt with it was weak and it would be admirable if u followed ur heart and told them. if u dont tell them u will be hiding things, thus the relationship wont be good and will get worst.

follow ur heart and be true to yourself. imagine if they felt the same way? and didn't say it, and u both did but were hiding it?
i think there is no easy way around it unfortunatly but if u are as honest as possible in the relationship u would be the ideal person.
the love of ur life could have just walked by if u dont do anything about it!