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    Eli

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    #297066   2008-05-18 21:58 GMT      
    In general. If it's something big, it usually takes me an hour or two. But if it's something small, it takes me about 10 mins.
    Why does it take so long to get over things? <-- Wondering
    Uh ok Renate..
    ???
    Mercury in Aries
    and
    Venus in Taurus
    Like for ex., my 'friend' told the teacher something she wasn't supposed to.
    I was extremely mad
    I yelled, slammed book, and w/e. But it took me an hour to get over it.
    This person just insulted this dress that I wore today and I got SO mad, I answered her stupid question and emailed her saying that she needs to freakin get over it!

    Srry just wanted to say that...

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    #297067   2008-05-18 22:06 GMT      
    its hard to tell when your depressed and you have so much unresolved grief. you more like in a constant state of messed up ness, i dont really ever start feeling better. usually when i get mad or whatever it will take a day for me to feel normal again, but the next day i will likely be more depressed until i bring my self back up again. which never happens which is why i am were i am

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    #297068   2008-05-18 22:06 GMT      
    If its something retarded and immature then maybe after the day is over, or after a week of forgetting it.

    If its betrayal, LONG time...yearly...forever...go away!

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    #297069   2008-05-18 22:08 GMT      
    it is not a matter of time. if someone is willing to apologize or at least try to connect with me in a positive way and is aware of they have done ,that is all it takes. even if it is right away.i don't need to calm down,life is too short!

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    #297070   2008-05-18 22:10 GMT      
    I don't get mad easily =) I;m a Cancerian

    I know my mom's a Scorpion (& she does get angry easily lol) but forgets within a min & my father's a Scorpion is the opposite but hold inside longer like he would give you a silent treatment (different for males I guess).

    I'm more like dad; if I get upset,,,I get stubborn (won't speak about it) but I usually forgive easily

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    #297071   2008-05-18 22:12 GMT      
    I say unto you as my scorpion friend once said to me "depends on the situation" Hi! ^_^ I am a Leo!

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    #297072   2008-05-18 22:16 GMT      
    well, as for me, if its something petty or small, it just takes about a few minutes to half a day.. I just require a piece of time alone, divert myself to fun activities or if that's the person annoying me, to leave me alone.. afterwards, when im not mad, depressed, upset, its ok.. no need to talk about what happened. If its something big, it takes longer time like a day or a week.. I easily forgive and forget.. I dont hold grudges and i never resort to revenge.. My sun sign is libra. I guess it mellows down my mercury and venus in scorpio.. BTW, whta's yours?

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    #297073   2008-05-18 22:16 GMT      
    Depends on the hurt, the situation, the problem, person......

    I can be volcano like but the next minute.........as calm as anything and that is it : I have said it, feel better, lets move on. (Strong trines between sag and moon conj. mars in leo).

    or .......more rarely....it is more a dislike which will last forever when I can't do anything about it.

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    #297074   2008-05-18 22:23 GMT      
    if its a big thing, a BIG thing that i know i wont forget for a very long time, ill initially be extremely angry for a while (dont know how long that can be, it varies) and whenever ill think about it after a long time, it'll wake up my anger, just not as intensely as initially. theres just some things that ill never be able to not feel a little bit of anger towards when i remember them.

    if its minor, like an argument with my mom or anyone else in my family or whatever, for the moment ill feel like the anger eats me up. after ten minutes or so after the incident, ill feel like the devil just left my body lol..... then the guilt shows up.... its just these crazy mood changes that suddenly happen.

    Sun in Capricorn

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    #297075   2008-05-18 22:39 GMT      
    If it's something small - probably by the end of the day or if I think it over. If it's huge - probably a day at most. I don't know why I can't ever stay mad at ppl for a long time even though I want to. I'm a libra BTW

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    #297076   2008-05-18 22:40 GMT      
    I'm a Sagittarius. If it was serious and I was hurt or betrayed, it can take a while......sometimes a day or more. If it's minor, I usually get over it within a few hours.

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    #297077   2008-05-18 22:57 GMT      
    it really depends on what i am mad about and who pissed me off. it takes a lot lot lot to make me really mad but when it happens look out!

    generally something silly and im over it almost instantly but something betrayal worthy i never forget, i get even.
    <--- taurus.

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    #297078   2008-05-18 23:08 GMT      
    I rarely get mad... but if I do, it's usually for something serious or big. And when I do get mad, I sing my happy songs to calm me down. Usually, after 2 or 3 songs, I'll get over it and try to make peace

    I don't like getting mad, because it deducts my valuable time of being happy... I try to avoid all violent matter most of the time... but at worst, I'll sing happy songs until it annoys the heck out the person that got me angry in the first place :P

    After all, it's not my fault that they got me angry in the first place... so a little annoyance should satisfy my irritation....hehehehehe... Evil Yvonne!

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    #297079   2008-05-18 23:17 GMT      
    Five minute is a long time already. I explode like a volcano but can put myself out fast.

    Libra /
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    #297080   2008-05-18 23:24 GMT      
    It can take hours or it can take years, depending on the situation. I'm a Capricorn.

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    #297081   2008-05-19 07:46 GMT      
    Depends on my mood and how pissed that person make me but normaly it's over about 1 day lol but that depends lolz.

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    #297082   2008-05-19 12:05 GMT      
    I'm Gemini...I get fired up quickly over things that you wouldn't expect me to... but I can get over them quickly if I can laugh about it.
    Otherwise, I tend to simmer slowly over REALLY important things. I NEVER forget getting F***** over by ANYBODY, even if THEY do.

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    #297083   2008-05-19 12:38 GMT      
    If it was something little, I would be mad for hours. Furthermore, if it was something big and it really hurt me, I would be mad for months or years; I'm a Libra sun.

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    #297084   2008-05-19 14:38 GMT      
    Not long because I tend to deal with my problems rather it's with people or not quick.

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    #297085   2008-05-19 16:40 GMT      
    It depends on what (& who) makes me mad.
    Generally, if it's something pretty small, about an hour
    or 2. If it's something big, sometimes my anger can last
    for even years. Yes, years !!! I know that's not good, but,
    it just happens that way. I'm a Libra (with an Aries moon),
    by the way.
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