My very good guy friend is an Aquarian.

Long story short, he just put on an event and I dont think it went very well. I know him well enough to know that if it had gone well, I wouldnt have been able to shut him up about it. He has been very quiet about things. He also has some other issues in his life that would make this kinda of like the anti-icing on the cake.

I dont want him to feel bad about this or about his life, and I want to be there to make him feel better and put things into perspective. My instinct says that hes feeling really bad and like all good Aquarians, he shrinks from overtly emotional stuff, although he feels things very deeply, in reality.

How can I comfort him without freaking him out? Im a Sag and my natural instinct is to hit things head on, so I need a little help here helping my friend the Aqua.

tell him to stop trying to fit in. he should go out to a park somewhere, listen to some music, and relax abit.